By Hilde H. Olsen and John Kearney
The twin flame path can seem excruciatingly lonely at times. I have experienced this my self. No wonder really, you carry in your heart this deepest of longings, an urge to be united with your beloved, and it feels like nothing will ever be right before your divine union comes to pass. Loneliness can be a very confusing state to be in, when everyone else seems to be doing so great around you. They are confident in socializing, communicating, and apparently they manoeuvre with the greatest comfort and ease through the rules of society. It makes you feel even more lonely and as the complete outsider, as your own confidence in playing the part on the scene of life, is very unsecure. It is like an unexplainable part of you is missing, and you can’t be fully whole.
Alone really means ALL ONE
It is at exactly those moments of loneliness and longing you need to trust the most… How ever hard it is. Trust that your union will happen of course, but more importantly trust that you are never alone!
Loneliness really means ALL ONE NESS
Know that it is only seemingly aloneness. Source is always with you , that is the divine spark in your heart that keeps your heart beating every second and that is the inspiration that has you inspire every minute. Not only is source energy, your creator, always with you, your twin is always with you too. You belong together, and you are attracting your twin flame like a magnet, but it might still be a while before the union is ready. The two of you truly are one soul.
It is not possible to ever be alone, think about it, we are all interconnected in the universe, the universal energy is everywhere. A time will come that you feel the moment of surrendering and accepting the way things are, and coming to terms with the interconnectedness. We are all souls spinning through the cosmos at really high speeds trying to make sense of it all. This is the moment you take responsibility for your own happiness. You are actually responsible for that, and the quicker you claim your responsibility the faster you will actually move towards your union. So what is holding you back from being happy, and feeling the union. The feeling is the prayer in Gregg Braden’s words. You think about your self as one with all, right there in the centre of the universe, take centre stage and and feel your own happiness, then claim it!
Responsibility is the ability to respond
I want to share this poem with you, as it made me feel connected in all the seeming separation from source, that I went through for years. It is humanity’s biggest fear, not belonging. We are very social beings, and we need other humans to thrive. When you know that so many others struggle with this same fear of not belonging, and the fear of being alone, maybe it will be easier to reach out a hand to others then?
One Night I Dreamed A Dream. By Mary Stevenson.
One night I dreamed a dream.
As I was walking along the beach with my Lord.
Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life.
For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand,
One belonging to me and one to my Lord.
After the last scene of my life flashed before me,
I looked back at the footprints in the sand.
I noticed that at many times along the path of my life,
especially at the very lowest and saddest times,
there was only one set of footprints.
This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it.
“Lord, you said once I decided to follow you,
You’d walk with me all the way.
But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life,
there was only one set of footprints.
I don’t understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me.”
He whispered, “My precious child, I love you and will never leave you
Never, ever, during your trials and testings.
When you saw only one set of footprints,
It was then that I carried you.”